The Stoic Life Chaser: Live Intentionally, Run Freely

Turning 35 was a sobering moment. As I reflected on my life, I couldn't help but acknowledge some significant financial missteps. Like many others, I succumbed to the allure of instant gratification, peer pressure, and impulsive spending.   The Cost of Procrastination One of my biggest regrets is not prioritizing saving early on. I could have significantly accelerated my financial progress through the power of compound interest. By delaying my savings journey, I missed out on valuable opportunities to build an emergency fund, invest in the stock market, and secure my financial future. The High Price of Impulsive Decisions Another regret is my impulsive decision to purchase a house and a car. While these assets can be valuable, they also come with significant financial burdens. The monthly mortgage and car payments have drained my resources, hindering my ability to save and invest. I should have carefully weighed the pros and cons of these purchases and considered the long-t...

“I stopped liking my job but I keep working because it pays well, and that makes me feel sick but not sick enough to quit which makes me even more sick” – from the movie Good Grief (2023) After spending nearly 13 years in the BPO industry, I've held a variety of roles, from a regular agent to a managerial position. While I've achieved success and gained valuable experience in this field, I've begun to question if it truly aligns with my long-term goals and personal aspirations. Despite the security and comfort of my current position, I've been feeling a growing sense of dissatisfaction. The daily grind of meetings, KPIs, and client management has become routine, but it no longer ignites my passion. I yearn for a career that is more fulfilling and aligns with my true self. As I contemplate this career shift, I'm grappling with the fear of the unknown. Leaving a stable job and venturing into a new field is daunting, especially when it comes to providing for my f...

In our fast-paced world, characterized by constant stimulation and endless demands, the simple act of pausing often gets overlooked. Yet, it's precisely in these moments of stillness that we can rediscover our inner peace, clarity, and resilience. This blog post will explore the profound benefits of pausing and offer practical tips on how to incorporate it into your daily life. However, it's important to note that while pausing is beneficial, too much of it can also have negative consequences. The Benefits of Pausing Reduced stress and anxiety: Taking a moment to breathe and center yourself can significantly lower stress levels. Increased focus and productivity: Paradoxically, pausing can enhance your ability to concentrate and achieve your goals. Improved decision-making: Stepping back from a situation allows for clearer thinking and better choices. Enhanced creativity: When your mind is quiet, innovative ideas can emerge...